When we love someone our shadows appear
It gets clear
We think: but will he/she love me if he/she knows about my shadows?
Self hate can be strong and therefore some people tend to withdraw.
This is the reason love can be hard.
When you love you see yourself with the loved ones eyes and you can feel miserable
You do not feel worthy of the love
You feel guilt and shame
It can become so disgusting you pull away.
The self hate can make people withdraw from love.
Feeling unworthy of that kind of love.
milva moog 